Dowry System : Cancer of the Society

In Ancient time in India people used to give gifts willingly at their daughters wedding. But now, time has been changed, tradition has been changed. In Today's India people are become more greedy and selfish, they ask for gift, vehicle, payment in cash and many more things forcefully for groom and his family, this system is known as DOWRY SYSTEM, and it is  one of the main reasons for killing of baby girls and Home Violence.

 In some parts of India rate of the groom is near about fixed according to his job category (such as : Doctors, Engineers, Civil Services etc.). 

People demands in their son's wedding but they forget the pain when they were playing role of a girl's family in her wedding. When they are bride's family they think that groom's family is teasing too much but when they become a groom's family they don't think even once that how they were feeling when they were a bride's family. Even a mother also forgets that how she was feeling in her wedding when her husband's family demanded for things and her father faced many problems to arrange them. So don't do the things to others which you don't like for yourself.

What should be the change ??

People of India will have to know their rights for killing such type of system. They should know that in Indian Law Dowry is prohibited from 1961, Sections 304B and 498A of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) are related to Dowry. According to these  sections the wife can seek redress from harassment by the husband's family. 

Therefore, if something is Crime according to our Law and also harming us then why should we follow this tradition ?? 

Think Once.

Be The Change You want to see in the Society

Stop Child Abuse : Two out of three had suffered Child abuse.

Nineteen percent of the world's children live in India which constitutes 42 percent of India’s total population. http://www.friendsofsbt.org/statistics

-Boys, as compared to girls, are equally at risk of abuse.^[1]

-Persons in trust and authority are major abusers.^[1]

-Two out of every three children are physically abused.^[1]

-50.2% children work seven days a week.^[1]

-53.2% children reported having faced one or more forms of sexual abuse.^[1]

-Children in work, street and in institutional care reported highest incidence of sexual assault.^[1]

 [1] http://www.unicef.org/india/media_2892.htm

Child abuse has many forms: physical, emotional, sexual, neglect, and exploitation. Any of these that are potentially or actually harmful to a child's health, survival, dignity and development are abuse. This definition is derived from the W.H.O. read more at … 

Stories from the News:-  

# The owner and manager of a children's boarding school in western India have been arrested after five minors said they were raped, forced to watch pornographic films and act them out with one another, police and charity workers said. The children were made to eat faeces as a punishment if they did not comply. read here 

# The 10-year-old told investigators that Manish Arora(supervisor at Bal Niketan) had molested her twice, when they started to record the statements of 15 inmates at the institute. Police sources said the Class IV student told them, "Uncle baar baar mujhe gale lagate they, jabki main mana karti thi (the supervisor used to hug me despite my objections)." After the girl had lodged the written complaint on April 7, a social welfare department inquiry had indicted Arora. read full story .

# Over 53% children face sexual abuse. Read full story

# Two minors raped by men known to them. In one of the cases, the neighbor lured Class III student Urvashi (name changed) with a chocolate to come along to a desolate place in an adjacent farmland in Pimpla village on the city outskirts on Monday where he savaged the child. full story

# The recent gang rape of two young female cousins in Uttar Pradesh has highlighted the shocking rates of sexual abuse and incest suffered by Indian children. read more 

# Another stories at…http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/child-abuse-cases

In according to above data and stories:  condition of children in India is very poor.

“Children are human form of God”

Really is this the way to treat God. Can’t we have some respect of children?

If we didn’t do something for it then India has got no Future.

Just imagine how it will affect mind of child. What they will think of society. 

Society, government, and parents had failed to protect children.

Now it’s time when we should start doing something about child abuse otherwise it will be very difficult for us to revive from situation.

Save Child.

Save India.

Stop child Abuse.

                                                                                                            Indus Yuva.

Indus Yuva ?

"Be The Change You want to see in the Society"

A group that motivates people to do right things, create awareness, to re-think on common occurring problems (rape, corruption, communal riots, dowry, female foeticide etc. these are not common but in this era these are recurring on daily basis).We want people to think and take right decision and not to blame others for these problems. Governments play blame games only. We are somewhere responsible for the happenings of these incidents. So, the way of thinking of the society has to be changed. So many years after the independence we are still developing. We have been hearing this for last 10 years. And we want somewhere to take initiative in bringing about the change. We cannot just rely on government for our betterment.  So being the responsible youth of this country we are spreading our thoughts and want to create heavenly atmosphere on our Earth (No rapes, respect for woman and respect for every individual on this Earth). We firmly belief only education and awareness can stop this. Punishing a person can stop that individual only. But by educating the society, we can bring the change we want to see in our lives.

The youth of 21^st century should have no thoughts of any kind of discrimination dominated in society. These lame words (communism, caste system, dowry, female foeticide etc.) should even be thrown out of the dictionary. The baby born in next generation should respire in the atmosphere where there is nothing called “social evil”.  

तुम  सुधरोगे, समाज  सुधरेगा। 

It's Fate Where we get birth

“ Bachche desh ka bhavishya hote hai “

Lekin kya aaj ke samaj main bachcho ki achhi dekhbhal or parvarish ho rhi hai ??

Umeed Karte h aapka jawaab - Haan, hi hoga, humare bachche achhe schools me padh rahe hai, achha kha rahe hai, achha pahan rahe hai, achhi siksha graham kar rhe hai aur aage jake successful banenge.

Lekin Kya Aap ( bahut se bhartiya log ) ne kabhi un bachcho ke bare me socha hai jo Anath hai , unki trf dhyaan se dekha hai, unke halat ko samajhne ki koshish ki hai , mai un bachcho ki bat kar rha hu jo Garib bechare Sadak, station aadi par ghumne ko majboor hai, aur idhar udhar Khane ki talash me ghum rahe hote hai, Aapke pas aake aapse kuch khaane k lie paise mangte hai. Ye bachche bhi hmare desh ke hi hai Ye bhi hmare desh ka bhavishya hai lekin kya hota hai inke sath  ---

Ye humare pas kuchh mangane k lie aate hai to hum me se kuchh log to inhe bhut buri tarah daat kar bhaga dete hai,  Sharm aani chahiye un logo ko. Agar aap unki help nahi kr skte to kuchh to kijiye unke liye ,at least unhe kuchh khila dijiye, ab aap log khud ko achha dikhane ke liye kehte hai ki badhava nahi dena chahiye aise bachcho ko paise dekar lekin dosto agr aap logo ke pas itni sochne ki kshamata hai ki paise dene se unko badhava milega aur wo galat  kam krenge to itni himmat karo ki unhe paise na dekar kuchh khana hi khila do jissse unka pet bhar jayega.

Hum me se kuchh log kehte hai ki ye Bachche badtamiz hote hai lekin kya kbhi aap logo ne ye sochne ki koshish ki hai ki wo badtamiz kyo hote hai ? Samaaj ka unke lie kathor vywahar (behaviour) or maansekta unko essa bana dete hai.
IndusYuva ke memebers dwara ek city me survey karane se ye anumaan lagaya gya ki In Bachcho ka Aisa behavior hone ki wajah hum me se kuchh log hai, hum main se kuchh log inhe jab bulate hai to bahut buri tarah se treat karte hai, bahut se log to is hadd tak gir jate hai ki unko kuch peso ka laalach de kar kisi anjaan or sunsaan jagah pe le jaate h... jaha pe unka badi hi besharmi se shoshan karte hai. ( Bhavishya main un bacho ka kya hoga ??? ) Inhi main se Kuch bacho ko chotti umar main dukaano or dhaabo pe kaam karne k lie majboor kia jaata hai, kya in bacho k bina humara desh vikshit (develop) ho paaega.

In sab ke sandarbh me IndusYuva aapse appeal krta hai ki please in chijo ko khatam karne me humari help kare. Help se matlab humara ye hai ki aap khud ko badle:

1.  Agar koi bachcha bhukha hai to use khana khilane ki koshish kare,
2.  Agar ho sake to unki jarurato ko pura karane ki koshish kare.
3.  Unke saath ache se pesh aae, jis se unko b ache vywaahar ko seekhne or samjhne ka mauka mile.
4. Agar aap apne najdeek kisi chotti umar k bache ko kaam karta dekhe, to is baare main kisi police station main jarur shikaayat darj karaain.
Humara uddeshya hai ki har insaan samaaj ke prati apne kartavy ko samajhe, yahi ek akhiri rasta hai is bigade hue samaj ko sudharne ka.

                                                                           

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Independent India ?

Leaders of educated India:

·         Women who were raped should also be punished. Women having consensual sex should be hanged

Abu Azmi, Samajwadi Party State Chief

·           

                      Boys make mistakes, why hang them? We will change such laws.

Mulayam Singh Yadav, Former Chief Minister

·        

                      Rape is sometimes right, sometimes wrong.

Babulal Gaur, Home Minister. Madhya Pradesh [BJP]

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                      No One Commits rape intentionally.  It happens by mistake

Ramsewak Pakira, Home Minister, Chhatisgarh[BJP]

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                      Marry off girls early to prevent rape 

 [Mr. Chautala  Former Chief Minister]

·                   

     "Girls should be married at the age of 16, so that they have their husbands for their sexual  needs, and they don't need to go elsewhere. This way rapes will not occur".  Khap Leader

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     No short skirts  [Chiranjeet Chakraborty, Trinamool Congress legislator]

·          

     Do not eat Chowmein [Jitender Chhatar, Khap Leader]

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     Stay at home. [Botsa Satyanarayana, Congress chief of Andhra Pradesh]

After so many years of Independence, India is with 74% literacy rate. Education is just to pass exams? Or Education is meant to create a better place for living of every Individual.

Are we really educated?

This is state of India after 67 years of Independence. And these leaders will remain in power after such a shameful remarks. People will still vote them. This shows the mentality of India.

People will still follow them. And they will try to prove them true.

Does cloth, food, timing really matters in rape?

No they don’t matter read here.. 

"Yatra Naryastu pujyante/ Ramante tatra devata."

Do we respect women?

Are we really want to change?

                                                                                       

References:-

http://www.merinews.com/quick-bytes/5-most-stupid-comments-by-indian-politicians-about-the-crime-of-rape/3791?imageID=28367

http://www.hindustantimes.com/elections2014/election-beat/mulayam-says-boys-make-mistakes-death-penalty-for-rape-needless-reports/article1-1206630.aspx

                                                                                                              Indus Yuva

Asaram: Do you really think it was a conspiracy ?

People, who are saying that it was conspiracy of Congress and Media for Asaram, should know that every proof even Medical Tests were found against him and if you believe in Justice System of your country you should wait for the decision of court rather than making nonsense tweets which relate him with Religion and God. If you people believe in God and Hinduism you should have remember this Sanskrit phrase as well as motto of our country  “Satyamev Jayate” , which means that truth alone triumphs, so if he is not guilty he will be free. Now talking about interference of Congress and Media I hope that you will be knowing about Hon’ble. Indian Supreme Court, which is above all these political parties and media, and wait for its decision.

Now-a-day, Because of this kind of people, rape and violence is increasing in India. These people discriminates India on the basis of religion and say that we are Hindu. I’ll say to those people if you know about Hinduism (Sanatan Dharm), you will never relate a person, who is found guilty, to God because in the Geeta Lord Krishna himself said that if you will follow me, I’ll open every gate for you. So if he (Asaram) is not guilty then why God is also not helping him? Why all proofs are against him?

I am surprised that rather than asking for punishment you are defending a rapist. You are saying him a Saint. But here also you are wrong because you don’t know what is the real meaning of word Saint. Saint is a person who is very far from lust, anger, greed, attachment and pride and He also need not to be afraid of anyone because God is with him. So, if Asaram is a saint, why he was afraid of Indian Police? Why he was running from one place to another?

 This kind of people please change your mindset because - Change in yourself will change the Society.

तुम  सुधरोगे, समाज  सुधरेगा। 

India : Are people Secular Or Communal ?

“India is a land of diverse religions that exist in harmony and peace. The secularism is one of the most important aspects of the country.”

These line just are in books but in this era: - India is a land of diverse religions (where people are fighting on basis of religion, caste and language) and people of India are being communal.

Pune Techie Killed 

Muzaffar Nagar Riots 2013

Canning Riots 2013 

Assam Violence 2012 

Deganga riots 2010

AksharDham Temple Riots 2002 

RaghuNath Temple Riots 2002 

Ghodra Train Burning 2002 

Babar Riots 2000

And lots more ...

A great Irony “India is a land of diverse religions that exist in harmony and peace. The secularism is one of the most important aspects of the country.”

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Please guys change your way of thinking. All are equal. Please respect each and every individual.

No religion is best or worse. Religion is just way of life. And each religion tell us a way of life, and destination of all religions is same. Religion is path to the destination. So if we have to reach in same destination then why to fight over these. All religion has different views so please respect each religion. All religion tell us to respect women, to love kids, to give importance to nature, to respect elders. All religion tell us same thing in different way. So stop and don’t create differences on any basis.

Don’t fight over these differences fight for wrong things happening.

Fight against evil. Fight against bad. Fight for Truth.

Indus Yuva.